Have you ever tryed to think about the concept of understanding itself?
I did and I realized just how little my understanding of the concept realy was. Before I tryed to understand other people from a very selfish point of view meaning alot of things dont make sence, but I realized that to truly understand a person you need to understand not what you view but you need to understand how they understand things this way youll be abble to not only make sence of other people but it also allowes you as a person to grow by adding other view points to your own. This way nothing will ever not make sence anymore for everyone has thayre own reasons and opinions and once you understand those thing you will understand everything.
Pretty much, yeah. As they say, everyone's the protagonist in their own story. Everyone has their own, complicated reasons for their actions. Understanding begins with accepting this fact and trying to see the issue from their point of view.