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ananemous
ive got a problem
so im with this girl whom i realy realy love for who she is she is an absolute perfect fit. but we recently got naked and i realized im not at all physicly atracted to her so how do i make it so that i start being physicly atracted to her too?
Spectrum
Just being romantically attracted to her is fine btw, you can tell her that you realized you only love her romantically and not sexually. If she hates you for that, then you didn't deserve her. If she accepts it, she accepts it and everything is fine.