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Something I’ve been meaning to ask everyone for while.
So do you guys have friends or a group that sticks by you and are “real friends”? I don’t exactly have any friends that stick by me or don’t even want to hang out. I’ve always been alone and I really don’t want to be alone anymore. I’ve always dreamed of having a group of friends that I will always stick by. Sorry If this is really edgy, I just wanted to get that out there.
Also the title is supposed to have an a after for.
👑 -- I can relate to you there. Despite my fairly good name on this site, I actually don't have many friends. I never did. I don't know what it is like to have a group of friends but at this point I am too depressed to care too much. I'm just living with the hand that life dealt me and shrugging everything off.
What are friends?
👑 -- I can relate to you there. Despite my fairly good name on this site, I actually don't have many friends. I never did. I don't know what it is like to have a group of friends but at this point I am too depressed to care too much. I'm just living with the hand that life dealt me and shrugging everything off. I wouldn’t want to live like that at all. I’ve never actually had a bond with anyone and it’s making me depressed. What are friends? I’d really appreciate it if you meme somewhere else.
Unfortunately, I do not have a meme. What are friends?
A friend is someone who stays by your side when times get rough or fun and they are a shoulder to cry or rely on but no matter what you never forget each other. You also might go through hardships with friends and that’s what makes them a true friend. Did that answer your question?
I have a group of four girls as my real best friends. But actually I only count one of them as reliable and my actual best friend. I have much more internet friends then in RL though.
👑 -- Well unfortunately, life kinda sucks. You go on and survive because you are expected to regardless of any enjoyment or not. I've grown used to this. I've never had a bond with anyone as well but I'm used to it at this point. This is my life and I am not allowed to leave it.
I used to have this 3-person friend group, I will call the 2 other girls Makoto and Yutaba, (because one has almost the exact same personality as Makoto, and the other is a mix of Yusuke's brutal honesty and artistic skills and Futaba's weebness and quirkiness. Yutaba actually has the exact same birthday as Yusuke. So you can blame my friends for my grudge against Makoto, why I think Futaba is best girl, and my unhealthy love for Yusuke. God, I love Persona 5.) So in 4th and 5th grade, we would sit under the playground and talk about Minecraft nonstop. Those were the good days. Me and Makoto were especially close. We would always text eachother and we would come to eachothers houses. However, during the end of 5th grade, I hit puberty and became extremely jealous of Makoto. I became kinda cold to her because of all of her accomplishments that year. And I hate myself for that. Meanwhile, me and Yutaba became much closer, however, we had to part ways during middle school. Me and Makoto were back on track by then, but then we would be cold to eachother again. And then we would be friends again, and at the beginning of this school year, we would part ways one last time from our friendship. I gotta admit I hate myself for starting all of this drama and I feel like a really bad friend. It's really awkward between us. I also have other friends, but we are not close. Right now, I don't feel lonely, because of Yutaba. She is dependable, she helps me improve, she is the best-est friend I could ever have. She is what I call a "true friend."
Also, How To Make Friends as an Introvert: Get adopted by an extrovert (Makoto) and become friends with one of your adoption buddies (Yutaba)
OH HECK YESTERDAY WAS MAKOTO NIJIMAS BIRTHDAY(the one from Persona 5)
(edited by Camziez)
Oops, guess I don't even know my birthday But seriously, I know the feeling all too well Regardless, you have us - internet friends - which really help me out tbh so yeah !!
I don't have friends at all.
The biggest issue I've seen that comes with games like Persona is the false narrative that groups will stay together forever. I use to have a click that I hung out with. We were all the beaten kids, picked on, etc, so we flocked together to try and basically survive school. As time moved on, we all devolved different ideologies, thoughts, perspectives, and it began to clash with what we originally wanted out of life. Friends turned to enemies, and eventually, the idea of having a group of friends became more and more difficult to sustain. People in the group would want to be left alone, others would lose their minds if they didn't have attention every 3 seconds, others just got tired. I hardly talk to the last remaining person in the first group, and that's for quite a few reasons. As I grew up through life, I realized that groups are temporary. I've had a few different groups going through life. You end up dropping people out of your life as they become contrast to your thoughts and beliefs. Life is less about keeping the same group. It's more about meeting new people, and finding the people that compliment your way of life. It will never be the same people you meet, and it's hard to say what kind of people will end up in your life in the future. So don't worry about having a group of people to be around you. Worry more about the quality of people you are with.
Alright so let's just say that my friends are named Femske, Makoto, Futaba, Ryuji, and haru Femske is a really cool person who draws amazing art. She's somewhat distant from me, but we're still good friends. She's a co-owner on my discord server as well. Makoto is somewhat similar to Femske, but she's more chill and hangs with me more. She's an admin on my server. Futaba is my gf. She's adorable, nerdy, and waifu material. The second co-owner of my server. Ryuji is that one friend that everyone hates, but he did introduce me to Danganronpa so thats cool. Another Admin, but he doesn't really care about my server. And Haru is my newest friend, who is actually on the phansite. Another co-owner on my server.
The biggest issue I've seen that comes with games like Persona is the false narrative that groups will stay together forever. I use to have a click that I hung out with. We were all the beaten kids, picked on, etc, so we flocked together to try and basically survive school. As time moved on, we all devolved different ideologies, thoughts, perspectives, and it began to clash with what we originally wanted out of life. Friends turned to enemies, and eventually, the idea of having a group of friends became more and more difficult to sustain. People in the group would want to be left alone, others would lose their minds if they didn't have attention every 3 seconds, others just got tired. I hardly talk to the last remaining person in the first group, and that's for quite a few reasons. As I grew up through life, I realized that groups are temporary. I've had a few different groups going through life. You end up dropping people out of your life as they become contrast to your thoughts and beliefs. Life is less about keeping the same group. It's more about meeting new people, and finding the people that compliment your way of life. It will never be the same people you meet, and it's hard to say what kind of people will end up in your life in the future. So don't worry about having a group of people to be around you. Worry more about the quality of people you are with. I’ve always never had any quality friends at all. I know everyone goes they’re separate ways but I’ve never even had a temporary group.
It’s really hard trying to survive everything when you have no one to talk to or count on. All I have is myself.
You have the Phansite!