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I could use your advice...
So recently at school, I've been made fun of or to an extent "bullied" by these girls in my P.E class. Think of me as a 'Yukkiko,' I'm not one to fight back, I'm modest. I also have social anxiety which makes this even worse. After school is done and my friends have left me, this one girl might come up to me and say "Hey fat ass" (which is ironic since she seems more overweight than me...) and the first time this happened I almost cried at school, I sat down and calmly breathed in and out. I was really pissed that she would go for someone who couldn't fight back and once and a while this would keep on happening to me. They also bully another girl in my class that has autism, it's honestly so sick to see them go after her, they call her name from afar and she looks back confused and they laugh. It's like they think of her as a dog. Anyways, I'm sorry about this stupid rant, it's just that people like this really piss me off and I wanted to get it off my chest.
Have you brought this up to any of the school staff? I mean- normally they are useless but sometimes you will find a teacher that will help.
Here's my thing: if they touch you again, beat the SHIT. Out of them. You can say it was in self defense and I bet they won't go near you after you've bashed their faces in.

Or that could go totally wrong and maybe you should go to a faculty member.
@Kitagawa I know this sounds stupid but, I have a hard time talking to teachers, even asking simple questions just scares me. I also don't know if I want to get the school staff involved because someone of them like the 'popular girls' y'know what I'm talking about? They just put on some kind of act in front of them to look like a good student. I've also befriended the girl with autism to help her out.
Wait until they traumatize you so badly you get superpowers then become Skitter! Oh wait shit no don't do that. It's the worst advice. Get help and transfer if you absolutely must.
@3xcal1bur If only I could... I'm not one to go all out and start a fight. She also has like 2 other girls backing her up so I might get my ass whopped lol.
Or: record what they're doing. Write down what they say or do, and record it if possible. Then, give your evidence to someone you can trust like your parents. Your parents call the district, you have proof, bullies possibly suspended or even expelled.
But if things do get physical, play defensive. I got into some serious trouble fighting other students. It's better to look like you're the victim.
@3xcal1bur I could but they usually come randomly, and leave within 20-30 sec... to just say some insult.
@goroami

Face your fears or continue to suffer. Unfortunately that is just how life is. Steel yourself and attempt to bring it up to one regardless. Even if the person acts just keep bringing it up to the teacher.

Another alternative would be to face your bullies head on. Perhaps don't fight- I've been expelled from enough schools to know that is a bad idea... but show them you won't take this shit any longer. Get angry, shout at them. They won't want to fuck with you if they think you are dangerous.

I know these solutions go against what you said. But in the end nothing like this will simply go away by ignoring it. You need to step up and do something about it.
@Tatsuya best advice yet 11/10
Yeah @Kitagawa is right about getting pissed at them. Go persona awakening level pissed at them. Roast them
@Kitagawa You're absolutely right, I know I should face my fear and talk to a teacher, there's really no excuse not to. I really want to help the girl out so this might be the best course of action, it might take me a few days to gather my courage but I'll try. Thank you.
@3xcal1bur XD! Yes! Or maybe I could leave a calling card behind~

More classy~
@goroami
You can do it, you're in the right here. Get those asshat bullies expelled.
@goroami
*muffled life will change in the background*
Psh, why do it the classy way? Steal their hearts in the most direct way- through their chest.
@3xcal1bur hell yeah! Also, can I chat with you on discord? It's about math.
@Kitagawa Oh my, such a brilliant idea Lord Gigawatt, why haven't I thought of that?!
Yeah one moment
Kitagawa^^
Tearing out people's hearts through their rib cage is a viable way to change them.

Change them from alive to dead, that is.
Was the first one I said best or the 2nd?
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I can't believe these bastards are calling you names
Mao
If you have any good friends in that class, tell them I can still remember this kinda stuff from middle school. But then in highschool I was always super chill so nobody made fun of me. It will get better if you wait it out, but telling someone won't hurt.
sorry that people are being shitty!!

i believe in your ability to talk to the teachers about it, though!! you can do it!!
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If I were you Goroami I would take things into my own hands because I was bullied in elementary school but I fought back and it stopped
I speak from experience as well. Though my bullies were relentless and would not stop until I made them genuinely fear for their lives.

And then suddenly the whole school was afraid of me, but at least I was left alone.
And that's the story about how I was almost arrested.
Holy shit that's awesome Kitagawa.
I mean- I guess. Constant bullying warped me into a beast and I beat the crap out of the person that kept going after me.

The moral of the story is don't be an asshole because eventually one of the people you insult and threaten will fight back and send you to the hospital.
@-Akira_Kurusu- lol, it's fine, it's just that I wanted to help the girl out.
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What do you plan on doing?
@-Akira_Kurusu- Homework baby! I had 3xcal1bur help me out a bit but he went to bed and phone isn't working ;_;
I'm still up if you want me to get on it's just that I get stupid when I'm tired :V
@3xcal1bur are you sure? If you're tired you can sleep.
@goroami
Insomnia just kicked in so I'm sure I'll be up for a bit
I've already finished my studies but good luck!
@-Akira_Kurusu- Thanks, but screw math X-X
I enjoy math but they put me in Math B Essentials and we get yelled at everyday when some annoying dumbass says something stupid
@-Akira_Kurusu- heh, I'm going to all honors classes next year!!! Except for math... now you can see how much of a dumbass I am in algebra XD!
I'm impressed and solving equations can sometimes be tricky
@-Akira_Kurusu- Not very impressive tbh lol, but homework next year will be a bitch.
You guys can just DM me if you need homework help
@3xcal1bur Yup you should ^^
I'll survive